Communicating your wishes is an important decision. I have seen it so often that people don’t plan to fail—they just fail to plan. If you care about your family, and want to make sure everything is in order, take the time to consider what steps are important for you to take now.
Do You Have A Will Or A Trust?
In a will, you state who you want to inherit your property and name a guardian to care for your young children should something happen to you and the other parent.
Consider A Trust
In a Trust, you state who you want to inherit your property and name a guardian to care for your young children should something happen to you and the other parent.
Make Health Care Directives
Writing out your wishes for health care can protect you if you become unable to make medical decisions for yourself. Health care directives include a health care declaration ("living will") and a power of attorney for health care, which gives someone you choose the power to make decisions if you can't. (In some states, these documents are combined into one, called an advance health care directive.)
With a durable power of attorney for finances, you can give a trusted person authority to handle your finances and property if you become incapacitated and unable to handle your own affairs. The person you name to handle your finances is called your agent or attorney-in-fact (but doesn't have to be an attorney).
Make A Financial Durable Power Of Attorney
Protect Your Children & Your Children's Property
You should name an adult (or couple) to be the conservator of your children’s wellbeing until they reach 18, and a guardian to manage any money and property your minor children may inherit from you. This can be the same person as the personal guardian you name in your will or trust.
File Beneficiary Forms
Naming a beneficiary for bank accounts and retirement plans makes the account automatically "payable on death" to your beneficiary and allows the funds to skip the probate process. Likewise, in almost all states, you can register your stocks, bonds, or brokerage accounts to transfer to your beneficiary upon your death.
If you have young children or own a house, or you may owe significant debts or estate tax when you die, life insurance may be a good idea.
Consider Life Insurance
Understand Estate Taxes
Most estates -- more than 99.7% -- won't owe federal estate taxes. For deaths in 2016, the federal government will impose estate tax at your death only if your taxable estate is worth more than $5.45 million. (This exemption amount rises each year to adjust for inflation.) Also, married couples can transfer up to twice the exempt amount tax-free, and all assets left to a spouse (as long as the spouse is a U.S. citizen) or tax-exempt charity are exempt from the tax.
Cover Funeral Expenses
Rather than a funeral prepayment plan, which may be unreliable, you can set up a payable-on-death account at your bank and deposit funds into it to pay for your funeral and related expenses.
Make your wishes known regarding organ and body donation and disposition of your body -- burial or cremation.
Make Final Arrangements
If you're the sole owner of a business, you should have a succession plan. If you own a business with others, you should have a buyout agreement.
Protect Your Business
Your attorney-in-fact and/or your executor (the person you choose in your will to administer your property after you die) may need access to the following documents: Will, trusts, insurance policies, real estate deeds, certificates for stocks, bonds, annuities, information on bank accounts, mutual funds, and safe deposit boxes, information on retirement plans, 401(k) accounts, or IRAs, information on debts: credit cards, mortgages and loans, utilities, and unpaid taxes, information on funeral prepayment plans, and any final arrangements instructions you have made.